How to Say I Love You - by Michael Hehn

How to Say I Love You - by Michael Hehn: "Remember the words from an old song...

'Be sure it's true when you say I love you, it's a sin to tell a lie'.

The concept of 'sin' has lost its meaning for most in our modern era, and even 'love' has lost its importance.

If you still believe in 'falling in love' then you will realize how difficult it is to say, 'I love you' in a meaningful way. Three little words that could change your life forever. The words, themselves, have lost their meaning because of overuse especially when it's not really true. Everybody says them.

However, when you want tell your partner of your love it's such a hard decision to make for many reasons. Will your partner return your love? Will your partner simply accept your declaration with indifference? Will he or she feel threatened? It is such a common problem that even 'The Seinfeld Show' had an episode on it.

So make it easy on yourself and plan the declaration so that as much as possible you eliminate the problems. The first step, of course, is to be certain you really are in love. If you so enjoy being with your partner that you want to be with him or her to the exclusion of all others, if you think of him or her every day when you are apart, you are probably in love. If you have even a small doubt you should wait a lit"