Nice Guys Vs Good Men - by Scot McKay

Nice Guys Vs Good Men - by Scot McKay: "We know that 'Nice Guys' tend to end up in the dreaded 'Just Be Friends Zone'. But that doesn't stop women everywhere from claiming that's what they really want in a man. So what's the deal here?

As often seems to be the case, the true answer is a disarmingly simple one. 'Nice' behavior by a man in and of itself is not what differentiates 'keepers' from the 'rejects' in the minds of women. To the contrary, it's all about HOW the man presents himself.

Make no mistake, it's not necessarily the I/Js (Idiot/Jerks) who get women-ESPECIALLY the highest echelon of women. Being 'good' or 'bad' in and of itself is NOT the key, despite what you may have heard elsewhere. In fact, being a 'bad boy' is at best a quick-fix for getting some women…any women who'll take him, as long as she's 'hot'.

Whether they are 'good' or 'bad', it is my informed and therefore strong opinion that guys rarely if ever get tossed into the 'friendship' pile if they have succeeded in any way, shape or form at creating ATTRACTION. Sure, there's the rare instance when a truly sharp woman recognizes that a guy is flat-out no good for her despite her overpowering desire for him, but let's face it-that wasn't a GOOD MAN she was dealing with anyway. And you know by now that we LOVE truly sharp women around here.

So here it is: The difference between a genuinely good man who ATTRACTS women and one who ultimately does not is centered around from what position he is coming from in performing his 'good guy' behavior. Men who act 'nice' from a position of WEAKNESS end up rejected. Men who are in a position of STRENGTH, yet who treat women well often make women so crazy for them that they have more options than they can handle."